In today's world, people are blaming others for their bad situations and get credit in good time.
How blamers are made?
It starts generally in our childhood. When we were a child we use to do many mistakes and known as problem makers. However, sometimes it is not our fault but still, we blamed for that bad condition. Due to this we emotionally broke down and start also blaming others to get relief from blame on us. And that how the cycle was started.
As we grew up, it becomes our habit and now we are master of it to blaming others for every bad condition we face.
Some examples,
I am not getting a good job because my teacher didn't teach me well.
I am not getting the promotion because of a selfish team leader.
I never get a good life as I born in a poor family.
I failed the exam because my friends were not good.
If only I get success when somebody changes my life.
Pros
We will get temporary relief.
Temporary solve the problem.
Don't need to leave your comfort zone.
Cons
You will never come out of your comfort zone.
You never achieve your dream.
People won't trust you.
Your learning will stop.
Fear, Depression, anxiety, and self-doubt will ruined your life.
Make the commitment and decide to become a Responsibility Taker.
Pros and cons of Being a Blame Taker.
Pros
As we take more responsibility, we develop more strength and courage.
People will love and trust you more.
You always work out of your comfort zone.
Your skills and decision-making power will improve
You can achieve your big goals.
Cons
You have to take more risks.
In this journey, sometimes you will face problems from your loved ones and you get hurt too (but it's good for them in long term).
You have to sacrifice things which you like most.
You will not get credit easily however you helped many.
Chances of losing confidence and take risky actions on the extreme level.
How To Overcome With This Situation?
You have to develop ethics first in yourself.
You need to build self-confidence by reading spiritual books and surrounding yourself with great mentors.
You always have to remember that on this journey problems will come as an opportunity to give you more strength.
Remember that you are playing a game that is created by the supreme power, and show gratitude for that.
Nobody is willing to hurt you, they are just part of your game to teach you life lessons.
It is hard when you will start this journey. And to develop this discipline in our life, we need a continuous flow of positive thoughts.
Thus, we are meeting every week to transform our lives for a better lifestyle.
If you are serious and willing to join our Let's Learn Together community, click on the below link.
Excited to welcome you into our family.
Stay tuned.
Akshay Patel
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