We often set the goal and make the plan to achieve it but, due to some reasons, we don't make that happen. And, I am sure in everyone's life it's common.
Yes, there are some goals which we achieved in our life, but if you see most of them are materialistic, here I am talking about the goal to improve our inner qualities.
Let's understand the reasons first which affects our plan,
Lack of clarity in setting the goal and planning
Not setting up the priority
Lack of self-confidence
Lack of motivation and guidance
Self-doubts
Now, let solve this problem. There are various ways by which we can achieve our goal. Here, I am talking about one of them which is through better planning.
5 steps to successfully implement your plan
Let's understand this with an example. I am taking the example of reading a 1000 pages book.
Step 1: Convert Your Plan Into The Easy (realist) Steps Using a Mathematical Model/Measurements
When we heard 1000 pages, we feel that it's not possible as we have to do lots of other work.
But, now think in a different way, 1000 pages mean we can divide it into 100 days so, just 10 pages per day. Now, it looks realistic and we feel that yes I can do this.
Steps 2: Find Strong Reasons To Make It In Priority
Try to find enough reasons to stick with your goal and plan.
Why should I read that book? It will give me more knowledge about my field or help me to develop good qualities like that. By this, your subconscious mind reminds you about your goal and plan again and again.
If you watching a movie or just busy with social media in that movement if you understood the importance of the goal you set, it will automatically remind you about the pending tasks.
Let's take another example. In the case of our family member, suddenly anyone gets serious, what will be our first priority!!. At that time we don't spend time watching a movie until that member gets well.
.We need the reasons as we grew up like that and thus it is really important to set the reasons to achieve your goal.
Step 3: Trust In Your Plan And Decision
When you have decided and started reading 10 pages per day, many people around will say, 'you won't continue, are you? It is not possible for you, you can not do it, it is not for you' and many more which will demotivate you. But there also some good people who encourage you to spend more time with those.
When you start your journey to become a good man and starting something new, the majority of people don't believe in you because they won't able to do it and thus they think you can also not able to do it.
Second, when you are committed to continuing your journey, nature will create some obstacles to make strong on your decision and plan so always be ready for it.
So don't listen to negative people. If you think your goal is great and your plan is also realistic, just trust them.
Step 4: Look For Solutions Instead Of Making Excuses
As I mentioned in the 3rd step, nature will give you obstacles in various ways so always get ready with the solution instead of making excuses.
As you are committed to reading 10 pages per day, but suddenly any major problem will come in your family or you got lost of work from your office and similar incidence in which case you probably don't make it happen.
We need to learn how to deal with this kind of situation as it will come into everyone's life. Keep this in mind, we don't need to stop here. The remaining page should be covered by changing a plan like instead of 10 pages now let's read 15 or 20 pages to cover up, that's the solution.
Step 5: Celebrate Your Small Achievements
As you know, the journey is most important than destiny. We should enjoy each step as we are working on our plan instead of creating pressure by self-doubting like what if, I didn't achieve it? What if, something will happen to me? What if, I fail?.
To overcome this, you must celebrate each movement as you are moving forward. As you are completing 100 pages out of 1000 pages, celebrate it by showing gratitude to people who helped you to achieve this, tell to your friends and family member who you consider most. This way you will get more confident about continuing your lifelong journey. Thus, don't forget to celebrate your small achievements.
If this knowledge gets you inspired, comment your thoughts on it. It will be very useful for others too.
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